It’s okay to use your line of retreat – #EndSARS

It’s okay to use your line of retreat – #EndSARS

When soldiers go to war, they usually leave room for an escapeā€¦basically a road or path they can take if they are driven back by the other army of soldiers and need to escape the battleground in a hurry. This is known as a line of retreat. The last few months have indeed been a [...]

YOU’VE BEEN DOING SELF-CARE ALL WRONG

YOU’VE BEEN DOING SELF-CARE ALL WRONG

I'm a big believer in the theory that you have to be at your best to be able to give your best. It's why I respect companies that would do anything to make sure that their employees are at their most comfortable. It's why I work for one of such companies šŸ˜ Anyways, this post [...]

What you want now or what you want most? – How to start making the right choice

What you want now or what you want most? – How to start making the right choice

Hello beautiful...Happy new month!!! I mean, it's still the new month right? Even though we are on Day 6 already. It's Day 6 right? I'm always curious as to how people count things. Like how do they count money? How do they count distance? How do they count time in a day? How do they [...]

Let people help you!

Let people help you!

You know how most people have a habit they want to break in their quest for personal development? It may be something as simple as staying up late unnecessarily or something as serious as not being able to properly communicate your feelings. A few people may have managed to rid themselves of these habits but [...]

Dear Content Creator | #WinterABC #Day8

Dear Content Creator | #WinterABC #Day8

Dear Content Creator, Many times, we are our own greatest enemies and we don't even realise it. Sometime in 2018, I made a post where I listed some signs that you are your own greatest enemy. If you haven't seen it, you should consider taking a peep. I believe that there are also signs like [...]

Social Media: Of People, By People, For People. | #WinterABC #Day6

Social Media: Of People, By People, For People. | #WinterABC #Day6

Have you ever wondered what the point of social media is? I know I have. I actually once took a pen and paper and started writing down the lessons I've learned from social media. You see, the world of social media can be difficult to navigate. It's a place made of people, by people and [...]

Becoming Tomilola: Road to Today and Lessons Learned. | #WinterABC #Day4

Becoming Tomilola: Road to Today and Lessons Learned. | #WinterABC #Day4

It's hard to write about who I am today. It's even harder to write about how I became who I am today. You see, the person that I am at the moment is shaped by every single one of my previous experiences. Every person I have met. Every place I have been. Everything I have [...]

Handy tips from a retired fear-fear

Handy tips from a retired fear-fear

Have you felt an itch in your throat and thought "Oh my God, is this it!" ? Have you sneezed and instantly started to Google the symptoms of coronavirus even though you already Googled it 17 times in the last 24 hours? Have you felt a little warm and touched your neck several times to [...]

You don’t have to be one thing, but you can’t be everything.

You don’t have to be one thing, but you can’t be everything.

I remember sitting on the pavement by the garden in the house I grew up in, asking my aunty one short question "Why can't I be everything?" I don't remember the answer she gave me anymore but I remember exactly what I was thinking when I asked that question.

LIFE AFTER NYSC + SIGNS YOU ARE YOUR OWN GREATEST ENEMY

LIFE AFTER NYSC + SIGNS YOU ARE YOUR OWN GREATEST ENEMY

Yaaaaassss people!!! I have gotten my certificate and I have hung my boots. NYSC is over! It actually feels like yesterday that I was writing my camp chronicles but in reality, a whole year has passed. No more CDS. No more clearance. No more allowance from the Federal Government. No more PPA. No more free [...]

Do You. The World Will Adjust!

Do You. The World Will Adjust!

Haha! Oya it's story timešŸ˜‚. So sometime last month I was in a gathering of people that I usually get together with to get things done. One babe kept staring at me (so much that I started feeling uncomfortable). After staring for a while, she asked "How do you cope?" One of the guys with [...]