Author: tomioflagos

  • BOOK REVIEW || DEAFENING SILENCE BY STEPHANIE ODILI

    BOOK REVIEW || DEAFENING SILENCE BY STEPHANIE ODILI

    Hello Guys! How is the week starting? Over here, I’m starting the week with the review of a great book I recently read. I got this review template from Tovelous so please head over to her blog and show her some love. Now, let’s look at the book. Genre: Fiction Theme: Civil War, Patriotism, Patriarchy Chapters: 18 Pages: 213…

  • LIFE UPDATE: WHO MISSED ME?

    LIFE UPDATE: WHO MISSED ME?

    Hello people! It’s been a while since I’ve been here and I really missed posting on the blog. I missed all of you readers, subscribers and faithful ‘commenters’ (shout out to Promise, Modupe, Banke, Praise, Blessing, Ayomide, Treasure, Ozioma and all the other regular commenters I didn’t mention). Y’all are forever amazing. One of my…

  • Do You. The World Will Adjust!

    Do You. The World Will Adjust!

    Haha! Oya it’s story time😂. So sometime last month I was in a gathering of people that I usually get together with to get things done. One babe kept staring at me (so much that I started feeling uncomfortable). After staring for a while, she asked “How do you cope?” One of the guys with…

  • #CITYLeadersArise2018 Summer Camp: Day 3

    #CITYLeadersArise2018 Summer Camp: Day 3

    DAY 3 – Morning Hi guys, I’m here again. Ready to download the full gist from today. Soo yesterday I forgot to mention that we were divided into squads (both volunteers and leaders). I mentioned that we call the campers leaders since that’s what the camp is all about -making them into leaders. There are…

  • #CITYLeadersArise2018 Summer Camp: Day 2

    #CITYLeadersArise2018 Summer Camp: Day 2

    Who remembers my July Review where I mentioned how much I have been anticipating volunteering for CITY Summer Leadership Camp this year. Well, the camp started yesterday but I just got into camp today so even if it is my Day 1, it’s technically Day 2 here in camp. After I got in today, I…

  • THE ACT OF KINDNESS IS IN GIVING…

    THE ACT OF KINDNESS IS IN GIVING…

    I dragged my feet in my worn-out jungle boots as I walked out through the gates of the local government at Ikeja. I was supposed to be relieved that I had finally finished my clearance but I was not. I was tired and hungry and I really hoped that they would pay our allowee that…

  • Love, Warmth, Grace and Sunshine: July Review.

    Love, Warmth, Grace and Sunshine: July Review.

    Hey lovelies, Happy new month. Welcome to the month of August. It’s been a while since I did a monthly review so I thought I’d do one this month. July was everything I thought it would be and more. I reached and even passed most of my goals for July and that made me really…

  • So I’m just supposed to settle? – Twitter Shiloh Debacle

    So I’m just supposed to settle? – Twitter Shiloh Debacle

    Today, I’m going straight to the point. It irks me when I hear people say things like “Let her continue rejecting all the guys. Shebi when she’s 35, we’ll see her at Shiloh.” Or “You can’t reply dms abi? Don’t worry when you’re old and ugly, you’ll come and start praying for husband.” I’m tired…

  • RIDE-OR-DIE, TODAY SOMEBODY WILL DIE!

    RIDE-OR-DIE, TODAY SOMEBODY WILL DIE!

    You know those friends you call ‘ride-or-die’, ones who would eagerly do big things for you before you even ask. There has to be a big gesture involved before you can confidently call them that. I had one of those. I still do. Her name is Tori and I’ll tell you how she earned the…

  • TO THE FRESH GRADUATE: One Year Post-Convocation.

    TO THE FRESH GRADUATE: One Year Post-Convocation.

    Hey Fresh Graduate, It’s a year already. One whole year after graduating university. And it’s nothing like I thought it would be. I thought I would be living the ideal post-graduate life but right now, it’s the exact opposite. What a shocker! I’m supposed to be doing my masters in jand right now posting cute…

  • Book Review: A Waist Is a Terrible Thing to Mind

    Book Review: A Waist Is a Terrible Thing to Mind

    Book Title: A Waist Is a Terrible Thing to Mind Author: Karen Scalf Linamen Number of Pages: 194 Price: 11 USD (I got mine on sale for about 4 USD) Soo straight to it! I won’t lie and say this book is not one of the most amazing I’ve read in a long time. If…

  • GOODBYE LUCY…

    GOODBYE LUCY…

    CHANGING MY BED – A GOODBYE LETTER. In a couple of weeks,  I’d be changing my bed because I’ve been using it for a while now and it has gotten a lot less firmer than it used to be. So here’s to my (soon-to-be-former) bed for staying with me through thick and thin. Hey you,…

  • WHY DO NIGERIANS HATE CONFIDENT PEOPLE?

    WHY DO NIGERIANS HATE CONFIDENT PEOPLE?

    Imagine this scenario and DO NOT LIE! I’m serious. Imagine it. You are at your place of work. Let’s assume you’re the front desk person or wait, no. You’re a management staff. You just happened to be at the reception to pick up something. The receptionist is not present at the moment. A bad ass…

  • You have won one free drink! 

    You have won one free drink! 

    Nothing in life is absolutely free. Familiar huh? Well, it wasn’t to me. Not at the time. The year was 2004 and my age was 6. It was that time when pet bottles were not common. Soft drinks were more common in glass bottles with covers that we usually gathered and used as counters. The…

  • 20 worst advice you must never take as they are!

    20 worst advice you must never take as they are!

    I’ve received my own fair share of advice in my time and many of them have been helpful. In the same vein however, many of them can classify as the worst advice you could ever give to anyone and SHOULD NOT be taken as they are. Most times, people can advise you because they just…

  • WILL THE REJECTION EVER END?: Why rejection hurts so much X How to handle it.

    WILL THE REJECTION EVER END?: Why rejection hurts so much X How to handle it.

    We sincerely regret… We are sorry but… We regret to inform you… We appreciate your interest but… What do these lines have in common? All popular openings to rejection letters. You would know if you have received enough in your time. I have, and to be honest, rejection hurts. Whether small or large-scale rejection. It…

  • I am not a piece of meat!

    I am not a piece of meat!

    Being a busty girl has never been all easy but still, I love myself and I love my body. So when I get looked at or treated like I’m just some piece of raw meat to be glared at and desired, I start feeling very conscious of my body and I hate that feeling so…

  • Keep Moving!

    Keep Moving!

    Just a few months back,  I had literally no answer to the question: what is the most scared you have ever been? Fast forward to after NYSC camp. I would now consider the thump thump of my heart as I lay under the bed staring at the soldiers boot so close to my nose as he searched…

  • Surviving the Bus Life in Lagos, Nigeria: DANFO 101

    Surviving the Bus Life in Lagos, Nigeria: DANFO 101

    The period of living in Lagos without a car might be one of the defining periods in your life. I mean it. I am totally not kidding. You would know this especially if you don’t have the money to spend on Uber or Taxify daily. Who would do that when you are going to be…

  • Against All Odds… 

    Against All Odds… 

    Going to quickly write this before I change my mind. It’s my first post back to the blog in over a month. The break was really sudden, even to me and I’ll tell y’all about it today. I was going to post my 20 before 20 post about 4 weeks ago. It took me a…