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5 of my favourite Naija bloggers | #WinterABC #Day7
Hi my darling! How are you? Are you keeping safe? I truly hope you are. If you do not feel great or need someone to talk to, please know you can reach out to me. Also, my DMs are always open on Instagram and Twitter. I’ll be glad to hear from you anytime. Today I’ll…
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Social Media: Of People, By People, For People. | #WinterABC #Day6
Have you ever wondered what the point of social media is? I know I have. I actually once took a pen and paper and started writing down the lessons I’ve learned from social media. You see, the world of social media can be difficult to navigate. It’s a place made of people, by people and…
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5 Fun Things to do while observing Social Distancing | #WinterABC #Day5
Hey you! How are you holding up? Sometimes, I’m just on my bed or in the bathroom and the reality randomly hits me again. WE ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF A FREAKING PANDEMIC! It’s funny how I’m not freaking out anymore the way I was at the beginning of this thing. I followed some tips…
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Becoming Tomilola: Road to Today and Lessons Learned. | #WinterABC #Day4
It’s hard to write about who I am today. It’s even harder to write about how I became who I am today. You see, the person that I am at the moment is shaped by every single one of my previous experiences. Every person I have met. Every place I have been. Everything I have…
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Let’s talk comfort foods | #WinterABC #Day3
When people ask me what my favourite food is, I always say one of two things: I don’t have a favourite food. Chicken and Chips, Ice-cream for dessert. I’ll explain. I do not have a favourite food. There are foods I like which include fried plantain, pasta, fruit salads, samosas etc. But none of these…
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Of Tiny Eyes and Storytelling | #WinterABC #Day2
From time to time, I sit back and think about what my blog is now and what it was when I started. And I’m usually unable to do that without thinking of who I am now and who I was when I started. When I started this blog, it was called Through my Tiny Eyes.…
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I’m taking a gamble on myself! | #WinterABC
Hi guys! How are you doing? I hope you are staying safe and staying protected? I also hope you’re staying safe mentally and emotionally and taking time for yourself if you need to. Remember that it’s okay to take a step back. Take some time off social media or mute any accounts that may be…
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Today makes it 20 years…
Today makes it 20 years since my biological dad passed. In a world where everybody wants to tell you how to do everything, – how to parent your kids, how to love, how to be a friend, how to process pain – this is one pain I’ve never really known how to process. My earliest…
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Handy tips from a retired fear-fear
Have you felt an itch in your throat and thought “Oh my God, is this it!” ? Have you sneezed and instantly started to Google the symptoms of coronavirus even though you already Googled it 17 times in the last 24 hours? Have you felt a little warm and touched your neck several times to…
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The Science of Pain.
How do people get out of bed when they don’t feel up to it? When nursing deep emotional pain? How do you take off your covers and put your feet in your slippers when you can feel your heart being squeezed, your chest tightening up, a ball in your throat, a pit in your stomach, a…
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Best Pork Ribs in Lagos – Food Shack, Restaurant Review
If you know me well enough, you’ll know that I’m always making a list of new places to eat but somehow, I end up eating at the same 2 or 3 places. I cannot, for the life of me, understand why. Anyways, I finally went somewhere new for the first time in a long while…
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You don’t have to be one thing, but you can’t be everything.
I remember sitting on the pavement by the garden in the house I grew up in, asking my aunty one short question “Why can’t I be everything?” I don’t remember the answer she gave me anymore but I remember exactly what I was thinking when I asked that question.
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My First Paint-and-Sip Experience.
Hiiiiiiiii!!! Welcome back! I feel like I need to explain why this blog is now tomioflagos.com. My explanation might give you a little inkling into why I’ve been away for the longest time. So…my original blog was hacked. I don’t know what happened exactly but I just started getting a lot of spam posts like…
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“So you can see me?”: On catcalls and street harassment.
Sometimes, I try to ignore street harassment but sometimes it gets really annoying especially when the person touches me or says something really demeaning to me. I honestly have no idea why some men do this because I’m so sure that they know how annoying it is. For God’s sake, catcalling is not a compliment!…
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House Hunting in Lagos (2): I got a houseee!!!
Hellooooooo! Welcome to Part 2 of house hunting in Lagos . I haven’t been this stressed before in my life. If you haven’t read about the okay, the bad and the super ridiculous parts of house hunting in Lagos, you should take a look before going on with this post because I’ll be getting right…
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HOUSE HUNTING IN LAGOS: The Okay, The Bad and The Super-Ridiculous.
“House hunting in Lagos is an extreme sport.” “House hunting in Lagos is draining.“
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BIRTHDAY BEHAVIOUR: TURNING 21 BY FORCE!
Finally! My birthday post! I delayed this post till today because I’m trying to get back on my Sunday posting wagon so yes. New posts will be going up on Sundays again. The Birthday Post! I thought on my 21st birthday, I’d be writing some form of overly reflective post on how much I’ve achieved…
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I’M SORRYYYYYYY!!!
Hi Guys! My People! This is not welcome back! This is ‘I’m sorry’. This is ‘I’m really really sorry’. A number of people have messaged me to ask why I haven’t put up any post in months. Some have actually confronted me physically as to why I took a break without any notice. So here…
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LIFE AFTER NYSC + SIGNS YOU ARE YOUR OWN GREATEST ENEMY
Yaaaaassss people!!! I have gotten my certificate and I have hung my boots. NYSC is over! It actually feels like yesterday that I was writing my camp chronicles but in reality, a whole year has passed. No more CDS. No more clearance. No more allowance from the Federal Government. No more PPA. No more free…
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BOOK REVIEW || DEAFENING SILENCE BY STEPHANIE ODILI
Hello Guys! How is the week starting? Over here, I’m starting the week with the review of a great book I recently read. I got this review template from Tovelous so please head over to her blog and show her some love. Now, let’s look at the book. Genre: Fiction Theme: Civil War, Patriotism, Patriarchy Chapters: 18 Pages: 213…
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