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chaotic deep
You know who I really rate? Polyglots. As a bilingual (soon-to-be-trilingual 😂) queen, I get so fascinated by people who can speak multiple languages. My fascination turns into me asking a million questions about language and translations and how they use both to interact with the world around them. What language do you think in?…
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I say I’m not ready for love but I’m always looking.
The last time I got my heart broken felt like the last time for real. I remember exactly where I was in Accra as I picked up the bits and pieces of my heart and glued them together with multiple binges of Friends, bottomless ice cream tubs, and the warmest hugs and affirmations from my…
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A ti lọ, a ti dé.
Phew! I’m actually back here. It has been 4 years since my last newsletter, hasn’t it? I won’t tell you whose brilliant idea it was to revive a blog in an era where nobody reads anything anymore 😂 In the meantime, here’s a quick recap of what I’ve been up to: Work, Movement & More…
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20 affordable ways to practise self-care (under NGN 2,000)
If I don’t talk about self-care for a long period of time, you people will need to throw a party for me because I’m obviously obsessed at this point. But why shouldn’t I be? It’s so important to do things that put you closer to being at your best. In this post on self-care, I…
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The Language of the Deep | #WinterABC #Day11
Even though I’ve lived in Lagos State, Nigeria all my life, my family is originally from Ogun State, Nigeria and the language we speak is Yoruba. I like to call it the language of the deep because there really is some unnecessarily deep sturv going on there😂. Some people still find it hard to believe…
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Naturalista Baby Girl | #WinterABC #Day10
Hi my darling! I hope you’re still holding up fine. Remember it’s okay to take a break for yourself and come back strong enough to fight for everything that truly matters. Today, Winter ABC asked us to say which brand we’d love to work with/ represent and I didn’t even have to think twice. Immediately…
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Becoming Tomilola: Road to Today and Lessons Learned. | #WinterABC #Day4
It’s hard to write about who I am today. It’s even harder to write about how I became who I am today. You see, the person that I am at the moment is shaped by every single one of my previous experiences. Every person I have met. Every place I have been. Everything I have…
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Of Tiny Eyes and Storytelling | #WinterABC #Day2
From time to time, I sit back and think about what my blog is now and what it was when I started. And I’m usually unable to do that without thinking of who I am now and who I was when I started. When I started this blog, it was called Through my Tiny Eyes.…
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I’m taking a gamble on myself! | #WinterABC
Hi guys! How are you doing? I hope you are staying safe and staying protected? I also hope you’re staying safe mentally and emotionally and taking time for yourself if you need to. Remember that it’s okay to take a step back. Take some time off social media or mute any accounts that may be…
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Today makes it 20 years…
Today makes it 20 years since my biological dad passed. In a world where everybody wants to tell you how to do everything, – how to parent your kids, how to love, how to be a friend, how to process pain – this is one pain I’ve never really known how to process. My earliest…
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Best Pork Ribs in Lagos – Food Shack, Restaurant Review
If you know me well enough, you’ll know that I’m always making a list of new places to eat but somehow, I end up eating at the same 2 or 3 places. I cannot, for the life of me, understand why. Anyways, I finally went somewhere new for the first time in a long while…
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My First Paint-and-Sip Experience.
Hiiiiiiiii!!! Welcome back! I feel like I need to explain why this blog is now tomioflagos.com. My explanation might give you a little inkling into why I’ve been away for the longest time. So…my original blog was hacked. I don’t know what happened exactly but I just started getting a lot of spam posts like…
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BIRTHDAY BEHAVIOUR: TURNING 21 BY FORCE!
Finally! My birthday post! I delayed this post till today because I’m trying to get back on my Sunday posting wagon so yes. New posts will be going up on Sundays again. The Birthday Post! I thought on my 21st birthday, I’d be writing some form of overly reflective post on how much I’ve achieved…
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I’M SORRYYYYYYY!!!
Hi Guys! My People! This is not welcome back! This is ‘I’m sorry’. This is ‘I’m really really sorry’. A number of people have messaged me to ask why I haven’t put up any post in months. Some have actually confronted me physically as to why I took a break without any notice. So here…
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LIFE AFTER NYSC + SIGNS YOU ARE YOUR OWN GREATEST ENEMY
Yaaaaassss people!!! I have gotten my certificate and I have hung my boots. NYSC is over! It actually feels like yesterday that I was writing my camp chronicles but in reality, a whole year has passed. No more CDS. No more clearance. No more allowance from the Federal Government. No more PPA. No more free…




